Episode 206
Prioritizing People: Nurturing Relationships Amidst the Digital Age
In this episode, we delve into a personal conversation about the impact of technology on relationships. I, or "we", had a heartfelt discussion centered around how technology has interfered with my relationship with my wife. It became evident that I was at fault for not prioritizing communication and being fully present in our interactions. My wife, being more talkative and relationship-focused, emphasized the importance of connecting and building relationships. While it doesn't come naturally to me, I acknowledged the significance of prioritizing these aspects and making a conscious effort to improve. We discussed how, even after years of marriage, it is essential to keep each other updated on our lives and careers as people grow and change. Without effective communication, assumptions can arise, ultimately leading to a breakdown in the relationship. This realization forced me to face the fact that technology was controlling me, rather than vice versa. It was an uncomfortable realization, but it motivated me to challenge myself and evaluate the amount of screen time and its impact on my relationships. I encourage the listeners to do the same - to carve out device-free moments each day, even if it feels uncomfortable initially. The result is a greater ability to engage in meaningful conversations and maintain strong connections. I personally realized the need to prioritize relationships over technology and career aspirations, as jobs and businesses will always be present, while relationships are delicate and require proper care. Therefore, it is crucial to invest time and effort into fostering and maintaining these bonds. So, let's strive to do good work while prioritizing the people in our lives.